The Bible could not be clearer about God's attitude toward both the proud and the humble. He plainly regards pride as synonymous with wickedness. The wicked "speak arrogantly" (Ps. 94:4). The one with a perverse heart "has a haughty look and an arrogant heart" (Ps. 101:5). The proud treat others wrongfully (Ps. 119:78). But, when you imagine a proud person, do not think of a wino in a back alley, smoking crack, cursing, and indulging in every sort of immorality. More often, he looks like the Pharisee in the temple thanking God that he's not like that guy (Lk. 18:10-14). He could be the "older brother" of Luke 15, not obviously immoral or riotous or wasteful or overtly disobedient. He may go to church with us. He may even be us. How can we tell when we see him or her? Here are three questions to ask:
This is a serious matter, deserving full attention. Pride drives a wedge in one's relationship with God (Ps. 138:6). Pride causes friction between one and God (Pr. 3:34). Perhaps no statement makes self-examination on this matter more urgent than Proverbs 8:13, where God simply says, "Pride and arrogance and the evil way and the perverse mouth I hate." Lord, let us be a humble people!