WHY DO WE TALK AS WE DO?
Our Lord said, "But I say to you that for every idle word men may speak, they will account of it in the day of judgment. For by your words you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned" (Matthew 12:36-37). The apostle Paul wrote: "Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt (salt, mind you, not pepper!, hf), that you may know how you ought to answer each one" (Colossians 4:6).
In the light of the above passages, it is amazing to hear how some people talk. Profanity is found on the lips of many people, including many who profess to be Christians. God's name is uttered in vain (in a shallow, thoughtless, irreverent way). "O My God" is heard all too often today. OMG (acronym for O My God) shows up too often in print, even from some professing to be Christians. "My Lord" and "Good Lord" are frequently spoken in thoughtless, flippant ways, thus taking the Lord's name in vain. Vulgarities of all kinds spew freely from the mouths of many. These speech patterns, though senseless, disrespectful, and unnecessary, are sometimes defended on the grounds that the speaker means no harm by them. I once heard such language defended on the grounds that such words are just sounds—verbal noises by which the speaker means no real harm, that they are just a part of the pattern of the person's way of expressing himself or herself.
Well, the preaching of the gospel involves the use of words and a pattern of speech that in one sense may be said to be just "sounds" or "verbal noises." In fact, the psalmist, in extolling the message of God's inanimate creation, said, "Their line (footnote, "sound") has gone out through all the earth, and their words to the end of the world" (Psalm 19:4). By inspiration, Paul quotes this very verse and applies it to preachers of the gospel. He says, "Their sound has gone out to all the earth, and their words to the end of the world" (Romans 10:18). (How is that for an apostolic example of what is often ridiculed as "proof-texting"?) But what a difference there is between the "sounds" and "verbal noises" of those who utter profanities and vulgarities and the "sounds" and "verbal noises" of those who speak forth "words of truth and soberness (reason)" (Acts 26:25)! In Iconium Paul and Barnabas made such "sounds" and "verbal noises" as to cause "a great multitude both of the Jews and of the Greeks to believe" (Acts 14:l). Do our "sounds" and "verbal noises" result in such?
Make no mistake about it—our words are significant. They are not mere "sounds" or "verbal noise," but a reflection of our heart and of our reverence and respect for God and His holiness. Jesus said, "Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks" (Matthew 12:34b). Paul exhorted, "Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but what is good for necessary edification, that it may impart grace to the hearers" (Ephesians 4:29).
God's word likewise forbids gossip, tale-bearing, murmuring, and lying. In the eyes of the Lord, these things are just as sinful as profanity and vulgarity. Paul wrote: "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice" (Ephesians 4:31). Elsewhere he said, "But now you also put off all these: anger, wrath, blasphemy, filthy language out of your mouth. Do not lie to one another, seeing that you have put off the old man with his deeds" (Colossians 3:8-9). James admonished, "Do not grumble against (grudge not against, KJV) one another, brethren, lest you be condemned" (James 5:9). The eternal fate of all liars will be with "the cowardly (fearful) and unbelieving and abominable and murders and sexually immoral and sorcerers and idolaters...in the lake which burns with fire and brimstone, which is the second death" (Revelation 21:8). Not a very likable bunch to have to live with throughout all eternity!
How right James was when he wrote: "For we all stumble in many things. If anyone does not stumble in word, he is a perfect (mature, complete, hf) man, able also to bridle the whole body" (James 3:2).
Hugh Fulford